Be bold! Think pleasure - Try something taboo

February 04, 2020

There are certain things that are strictly taboo when it comes to sex in Jamaica. These include oral or anal stimulation, threesomes or multiple partners.

Of course, in recent times, many of the rules, which are influenced by the dance-hall culture, are being challenged, especially with access to the Internet. Today, many Jamaicans are exposed to unfiltered sexuality and a world of adventurous experiences.

Sexuality is an integral part of the human experience and does not have to be restricted to only a few activities. Personally, I think it is time for us to revisit the way we think of sex as Jamaicans, and recognise that there is much to learn and benefit from if we just opened our minds.

My advise: Try something taboo! You just might like it. Let’s take cunnilingus, for example. Oral stimulation of the female genitalia is not only very pleasurable for her, it increase the level of intimacy between partners.

Don’t worry about the odour or the taste, a healthy vagina does not stink; plus, you can always add flavour by adding your favourite fruit and enjoy. The same goes for fellatio (oral stimulation of the male genitalia). Some partners are afraid of having semen in the face, but that easily mitigated with the use of a condom (yes, there are flavoured ones as well.)

Some people are concerned about possible sexually transmitted infections and that is understandable, but with a healthy partner and practising safe sex, the risk can be minimised.

Inviting other persons to join you and your partner in a sexual experience, like a threesome, can be daunting. However, with clear rules and mutual respect, it is possible to have a very pleasurable and fulfilling experience.

Let’s face it, sex is an amazing part of our lives, and with a partner that is willing to grow with you sexually, it can improve your overall quality of life. So get out of your way, get your partner aroused and try something taboo!


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