Men’s trauma linked to gender-based violence

Counselling psychologist Dr Keshawna Salmon-Ferguson asserts that achieving a world free from gender-based violence (GBV) is impossible without addressing men's mental health and their role in the cycle of abuse.

She said that many cases of GBV stem from deep-seated emotional wounds, childhood trauma, and unaddressed pain that men carry into adulthood. Social norms often discourage men from expressing vulnerability, leading to emotional detachment, anger, and, in some cases, violent behaviour.

"When men are given the support to process their emotions and heal, they become allies rather than enablers of violence. A commitment to emotional well-being allows men to engage in relationships built on trust, respect, and accountability," said Salmon-Ferguson. She highlighted three essential ways men can help break the cycle of GBV, namely: healing past trauma; encouraging men to seek therapy and emotional support; and establishing programmes and forums where men can openly discuss emotions, mental health struggles, and healthy relationships.

Four in 10 women in Jamaica experience some form of intimate partner violence. Circle of Care Jamaica, a non-profit organisation, is committed to providing holistic support for GBV survivors. Founder and CEO Alicia Bowen-McCulksie said the entity has empowered, encouraged, and inspired survivors to break their silence and seek help.

"We aim to connect victims with the resources they need to heal and rebuild," she said. Survivors gain access to critical services, including counselling and mental health support to address trauma and rebuild self-esteem. Economic empowerment programmes equip them with skills training, while information, resources, and care packages assist them in their healing journey. These efforts foster a sense of hope, resilience, and renewal, offering survivors a pathway to independence and self-sufficiency. At its core, love should be a foundation of mutual respect, support, and growth. Yet, for many survivors of GBV, love has been distorted by cycles of control, fear, and pain.

"Relationships require effort, but constant emotional distress and fear are not signs of love--they are signs of dysfunction," said Salmon-Ferguson. "True love should build, not break."