I feel like cheating on my man


December 30, 2015

Dear Pastor,

I am 26 years old and I am really confused. I have a man and he has been going out every night and comes home in the morning. I am well in need of love at nights, but he is never there to give me what I want. I am thinking of cheating on him because I am in need of

affection a lot.

What should I do?


Dear Lonely,

It is time for you to have a long talk with your man. You should try to find out why he goes out every night and where does he go. If this man fails to give you a satisfactory answer, you should tell him how you feel about the relationship. If he is not prepared to stay with you at nights, you should end the relationship with him and move on.

I cannot encourage you to cheat, but I do understand why you are tempted to do so. Tell him if he is not happy with you and there are issues in the relationship, then both of you should go and see a family counsellor. If he agrees to go, then make an appointment to see a family counsellor.


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