Is my younger lover using me, pastor?


August 23, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I need your advice. I am writing from Germany. I am in love with a Jamaican man who is 10 years younger than I. I am 32 years old. I was told that he might be using me, but I don't think so. He is working and he is very independent. I love him, Pastor. What do you think? I am looking forward to hearing from you.


Dear D.L.,

No one can be absolutely sure whether the relationship you are having with this man will work.

Though you are older than he is, people should not use that to judge you. He's Jamaican and you are German. Lots of Germans marry Jamaicans. People ought to learn to mind their own business. I would say to you, my dear, follow your heart.


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