Naughty father-in-law gave me sexy panties for Valentine's Day

February 14, 2017
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Dear Pastor,

This is the second time that I am writing to you. I need your counsel. I am 26 years old. I am married, but I do not have children. My husband is 28, and he fathered two children before we became lovers and got married. My husband is very quiet and he is in a good job. He is a good husband to me and a good father to his children. Sometimes I tell him that he is too quiet for me. I have learnt how to show love to my husband. He has not bothered me about not having a child.

His grandmother and I get along very well. She calls me her daughter. She asks me to do all her business for her.

My problem, Pastor, is with my father-in-law. This man has always shown interest in me. The first thing I found strange was that on Valentine's Day last year when he came to my workplace, he handed me a present, well-packaged, with a card saying "Happy Valentine's Day, My Love". When I had the time, I opened it, but I was glad I was alone. It was sexy panties. I was shocked! I called my mother and told her about the type of gift he gave me and both of us contemplated why. I told my mother that I would give the present back to him. She said that I should not let my husband know about the type of gift he had given me. So I told her that I wouldn't.

Later that day, my mother called me and told me that I shouldn't send them back to him but give them to her, and she would wear them and that I should tell him that such a gift from a father-in-law to a daughter-in-law was not appropriate. I also told my husband what his father had given me, and he said, "Daddy knocks his head sometimes", and he told me not to wear them.

I saw these panties online and they are very expensive.

My father-in-law has never put any question to me, but by his attitude towards me and by his general behaviour, I know he likes me - not just as a daughter-in-law. I am not interested in him. I would rather die than to go to bed with my father-in-law.

D.K.

Dear D.K.,

You made a mistake when you received these gifts from your father-in-law. When you realised what they were, you should have sent them back to your father-in-law immediately.

If you did not suspect that this man was wanting to have an affaire with you, you might have wondered why such an inappropriate gift was given. But here is a man who clearly loves you and wants to be intimate with you, giving you these gifts.

You should have sent them back.

Your mother said that she could use them. The type that he sent is very costly. I am not going to mention the name because these people must not be given free advertisement. You know that you should keep away from such a man, and I commend you also for telling your husband about what is going on between the both of you. Some men have absolutely no shame! They have no morals at all!

I am glad that you have a wonderful husband and both of you are enjoying life together. Although you have not been able to have a child for him as yet, don't give up on that one.

Pastor

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