Men who are lame in bed will get ‘bun’

Dear Pastor,

There are men who are looking for women to rip off or to rob. Then there are those who are genuinely looking for genuine women to settle down with and have a good family.

There are those who do not have a clue as to what they are looking for; all they are looking for is just a night's dinner or a one-night stand.

A man can be very good in every way except one that is dear to the woman's heart, and that is to satisfy her sexual needs. No matter how good he is, if that need cannot be met, she might just go out and help herself. It is not right, but it does happen.

There are many reasons why men cheat on good women. One reason is that some men cannot be satisfied with what they have at home, no matter how good it is.

Another reason could be that the woman can be very good, but very lazy in bed, and so the man has to look elsewhere.

I.

Dear I.,

You women seem to be saying that the days when a woman would stay home and cry herself to sleep are done.

You all are not holding back from saying that if the man is unable to function and to satisfy your sexual needs, then you will find excitement and comfort that other men might be able to give you. The world has truly changed.

I am glad that there are still good women who would stay with their men and help them in the areas where they are lacking.

Couples should teach each other how to bring pleasure to each other, instead of cheating on each other. I believe that is one of the reasons why it is necessary for couples to have premarital counselling before they say 'I do'.

This should cover all topics that deal with marriage.

Pastor