My man loves hanging with the wrong company

Dear pastor,

I am 27 and I am having a problem. I am living with a man. He has many friends. He is popular, he goes out with his friends to have fun. These guys have lots of women. He told me there are times when the guys have sex with the same girls and everybody knows. That is the way they operate. I told him that I didn't like that and I asked him if he ever did it. He said that he had done it only once, but he was half drunk, but the girl had a condom so he used it. I didn't believe him. So I told him that I was going to leave him if he continues to go out. Now one of the girls is accusing them of having sex with her and she did not consent. She called my boyfriend's name. To make things worse, this girl told him that she is pregnant, and he is the only one who did not use a condom with her.

This man and I have paid down on a house and everything is coming through. I don't know what to do. We do not have children. I don't want a child before I have my house. If this child belongs to him, I don't want him. I can't love this man as before. He is trying to be nice to me, he is even crying. Sometimes I don't know what to think. Help me, pastor.

L.D.

Dear L.D.

I am afraid that I cannot encourage you to continue with this man. You are not yet married to him and if you were to get married to him, the relationship is unlikely to improve because he is a very careless man. He enjoys going out and having fun. Nothing is wrong with that, but he is hanging around with the wrong company. He was warned many times, but he has played the fool.

Don't allow his crocodile tears to move you.

Pastor