The gardener won't leave me alone

Dear Pastor,

I am 14 years old, and I am going to high school. My mother is not in Jamaica at this moment. She is on a course in America. Every time the gardener sees me, he is always telling me how sexy I am. I was going to school one day, and when I was passing, him at the gate he stretched out his tongue at me.

My father is very aggressive, and I have heard him say that any man who fools around me, he will break their bones. So I don't want to tell him about the gardener because I don't want him to get into any trouble.

I am looking out for your answer.

S.J.

Dear S.J,

I suggest that you tell your father exactly what this man is saying to you. He should not be working at your home. Let your father deal with this matter immediately. The guy should be fired. Be careful. Keep out of his way. Remember now, report this guy to your father right away.

Pastor