Women who cheat should be lashed in public


August 17, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I know a doctor who is doing a bad thing to relationships between husbands and wives. He is doing the tubal ligation operation on wives and common-law spouses without these women having any discussion with their men. What do you say about that?

Pastor, I am recommending that women who cheat on good men should be given 100 lashes in public on their rumps. Otherwise, we will not have better homes or children.

Women who take men into the matrimonial bed and say they have reasons to surprise their husbands, what do you think of them? And what do you think of men who are brave enough to enter a married couple's bedroom, and also to sleep there and challenge the spouse when he comes to his house?

A woman can kill my nature by being unclean, disrespectful, untruthful, unfaithful, unkind, uncaring, lazy, unproductive, and unhealthy.

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Dear Writer,

Pertaining to the first paragraph of your letter, if a man and his woman have a good relationship, she would not want to do anything to jeopardise the relationship, and whatever she wants to do, it would be discussed with her man. Some women have had this type of operation without the knowledge of their men and one could argue that a woman has a right to do whatever she wishes with her body. I wouldn't even argue to the contrary, but I know for sure that if it is a good relationship, a wise woman would want to discuss this matter before undergoing such operation.


Some women who have had many children and are not interested in having anymore, but whose men are against this operation, have secretly done so without the knowledge of their men. On the other hand, some who have approached their doctors and asked them 'to tie them off', as people commonly called the tubal ligation operation, have been advised by their doctors to discuss this matter with their men first. And the doctors do so because such operation is considered permanent.

I don't believe that men should beat men, neither should women beat men. That is abuse. I believe that if people are having problems, they should seek professional help, and if they fail to resolve their problems, they should separate peacefully and amicably. I believe what you are trying to say is that women who cheat should be humiliated, and by doing it in public, they would consider not doing so again.

Although people take the risk all the time by having sex in another man's or woman's bed, they are playing with their lives. No man should go into another man's bedroom and have sex with his wife. One doesn't have to go to university to know that that's wrong. But men take that risk all the time, and women have gone into other women's bedroom and have had sex with their men. Some have been caught and have had to run out of the rooms naked.

Every man should try to take care of his woman to make her feel wanted and to provide for her. Women love men who take care of them and take care of themselves. Women need money, and no man should expect a woman to take care of him without him giving her money. Some men don't like to hear that, but that is the truth.


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