Can't stop having sex with my daughter's man


December 21, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am a single, professional woman in my 50s. I am still considered attractive even though I am mature. My marriage ended in a divorce, but on a pleasant note.

The union resulted in a daughter. After my husband left, I raised our daughter. She is a successful woman who has many achievements.

The issue is that our great relationship is at stake. For the last month, I have been sleeping with her boyfriend. He is a very intelligent young man. One night we were having a conversation when he kissed me. I knew it was wrong but we were so attracted to each other.

I don't want to hurt my daughter. I know I should do the right thing and end the relationship, but I really like him. Furthermore, I don't think my daughter deserves him. She treats him badly although he is devoted to her. I would really appreciate your advice.


Dear L.T.,

If I didn't know better, I would believe the nonsense that you are talking. You should admit that you are a terrible woman. You are shameless. No wonder the Bible speaks of depravity. People are depraved from the top of their head to the sole of their feet.

Woman, you are talking about your daughter's man. You say that you and your daughter have had a very wonderful relationship. You are proud of her. She has done well. She has achieved much, and she has a very bright future before her. She found a man and you know that they love each other. You accepted this man as a good man. Why couldn't you see this man only as a future son-in-law and accept him only as such? Tell me why you began to love him in a sexual way.

You said that your daughter doesn't deserve this man. What a sick woman you are! You are implying, therefore, that you deserve him. Oh, may God have mercy on your soul. You said that she treats him badly, but you did not explain in what way.

You said that one day this guy kissed you. A man just doesn't kiss a woman like that. You are lying. He kissed you because it was your desire for him to kiss you. He sensed all along that you wanted him, and you were throwing yourself at him. That is the truth and he was too weak to resist you. How could you be having sex with your daughter's man? How could you look in your daughter's face? This young man is having sex with mother and daughter. Such filthiness. Such slimy behaviour.

Do you know what you have done, woman? You have destroyed the good relationship that your daughter and her boyfriend have. He can never marry your daughter because of you. Yes, you will never allow him to do so. You have taken him away. I want you to remember that there is a God, and God will deal with you severely for going to bed with your daughter's man. So I call on you to repent and bring this relationship to an end right now. Whenever it is convenient, you should tell him that you can't see him any longer because God is seeing you. That is all I have to say right now.

Some would say that I am too harsh on you, but you have not written to me expressing feelings of remorse for what you have done. Therefore, I can only tell you that the reason why you went with this man is because you are iniquitous, and you need to shout out to God and turn away from what you are doing.


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