No sex for 22 years with my husband


March 22, 2017

Dear Pastor,

I have been married for 28 years, but my husband doesn't know if I am a man or woman. Only 'fresh meat' turns him on.

After waiting on him for 22 out of the 28 years, I decided I have no more feelings for him.

I keep turning away men, telling them that I am a married woman. They are decent men, but I decided that I didn't want to break up other women's lives.

I don't care anymore. Pastor, you don't know how much I love my husband, but if he can hurt me so much without even having any remorse, I don't care anymore.

I took care of him and this is how he repays me.

He has starved me (for sex) for over 22 years. No more will I allow this. I will not love any man more than myself. I am going to be brutal.

I fixed up my man so other woman can have him. I am done with this loyalty crap. The next time the right man comes along, I will know what to do. I am looking for a nice single man who needs a good woman.

Unhappy and Angry

Dear Unhappy,

You are indeed very angry. It is amazing that although you are married, you have not been having sex with your husband.

But you speak as if you know for sure that he has been having a good time with other women. You are tired of the way you are living.

You speak as if you believe that time is running out on you, therefore you are ready to kick your husband out. Who can blame you?

I must warn you, nevertheless, to be extremely careful. Divorce your husband if you feel you must, but do not become careless or promiscuous. My prayers are with you and I wish you well.


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