My girlfriend doesn't have time for me


April 04, 2017

Dear Pastor,

How can I tell that my girlfriend is in love with me? She says that she loves me all the time but she hardly calls me; and when I want to see her, she is always busy.

I told her I am fed up with her behaviour and she said that good things come to those who wait. She is 19 and I am 21. She is not my first girlfriend, but she is my first girl since I became a Christian.

We have been together since February.

Do you think I should wait on this girl to make up her mind or move on?


Dear S.H.,

Give this young lady time, but tell her that you cannot wait forever. She is probably taking you for granted.

So tell her that February next year would be one year since both of you would have been together, so you expect her to get serious, otherwise you will look elsewhere.


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