I am a sex addict


April 07, 2017

Dear Pastor,

I am 41 years old and I was listening to your programme on the topic 'Does Your Body Need Sex?' I used to think that I could live forever without sex. When I was young, I wanted sex often.

I did not resist my husband. I got married when I was 23 and he was 24.

I remember going to my parents' home with my husband and we wanted to have sex. It was moonlight and the room we were going to sleep in was next to my parents' and the house was a wooden house.

I was afraid that my parents would hear us, so we went down to the beach and had sex on the beach that night. People walked by and saw us but we were under a sheet. They didn't know who we were.

My husband went to work in one of the Caribbean islands and that affected me. I flew down to be with him for one weekend, and guess what happened? My period came.

I will never forget what my husband did to satisfy the both of us.


I have never told my husband that I have cheated on him. I know he would not forgive me, but I have. I have even done a threesome with my girlfriend and her boyfriend and my girlfriend does not know that her boyfriend came back to me and we had sex again.

So to answer your question; my body needs sex. I can't do without it.

I don't have children. My husband enjoys my body. I look like an 18-year-old, and that is what guys tell me. They say life begins at 40, and that is true for me.

I don't have big hips, but according to my husband, I have what it takes.

Pastor, you don't have to comment on what I say.


Dear V.E.,

You have gone wild. Would you really say that you love your husband? When you were engaging in a threesome with your girlfriend and her man, did you think of your husband at all?

Perhaps not, and if you loved your husband, why did you go back to your friend's man? Would you tell your friend that you went back to her boyfriend? I guess not.

Do you mean to tell me that you cannot do without sex for a little while when your husband is abroad?

Yes, it is said that life begins at 40, but that does not mean that a woman over 40 should become immoral and give her body to every man who comes by or she should call some guy she knows when she has sexual urges.

One thing about sex is that if you don't do it, it doesn't kill you.

Curse me if you want. I don't believe that you love your husband. If you did, you wouldn't have spread your legs for any man when you feel the urge to have sex.


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