Girlfriend cheated, wants me to pay for abortion


March 12, 2016

Girlfriend cheated, wants me

to pay for


Dear Pastor,

I am having a problem. I would like you to help me. I am a 30-year-old man and working. I have a girlfriend who got pregnant.

She told me the child was mine. I believed her. I always wanted to have a child.

When she was three-and-a-half months pregnant, going into the fourth month, she told me she was not sure if the child was mine.

I asked her why she had not told me she had another boyfriend. She said it was an on-and-off relationship.

I have spent a lot of money on this girl. She said the child can still be mine, but she believes it belongs to the other guy. She does not want him to be the father, so she wants me to give her money so she can have an abortion.


Dear P. L.,

This girl is a liar and trickster. It is unlikely she is pregnant. She has changed her story. What I believe she wants is your money. Keep your money in your pocket. Drop her like hot bread. Have nothing more to do with her.

If, indeed, she is pregnant, when the child is born let her do a DNA test to ascertain who is the biological father. Too many girls are tricking men to get money out of them.


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