My man doesn't answer my calls, texts


March 30, 2016

Dear Pastor,

Good day, pastor. I am a 22-year-old girl. I have a boyfriend living in the city. We don't live together, but I visit whenever I am home. Sometimes I can't get to him when I want to. He says he is very busy.

When I call, he doesn't pick up his phone. He claims that he loves me very much, but who would love a person and not want to hear from that person at least twice per day. If I text him, he reads my messages and doesn't reply until four to five days have pass.

What kind of a relationship is that?


Dear P.E.,

You have good reasons to be questioning this man's friendship. How could he be in love with you and not show more interest? You seemed to be putting out a lot of effort to talk to him and to see him, but he does not reciprocate. His behaviour is causing you to question whether he truly loves you. You would not want to waste your time trying to reach out to this man and he is not responding.

Therefore, you need to make it clear to him that you are tired of his behaviour and you wish to know, once and for all, what he intends to do about the relationship. If he is not interested, he should tell you. When you speak to him, make sure you tell him that you do not have a boyfriend apart from him. Tell him that you are a young girl and you do not want to waste time, hence your concern. Tell him not to delay in answering you because you have already waited too long on him to change.


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