I am not pleased with my boyfriend


June 13, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am writing to ask you a question and your views about the matter. But first, let me give you a little background about my relationship with my boyfriend. It has been two years and counting since my boyfriend and I are together and the relationship has its ups and downs, mostly ups. Recently, I am feeling depressed because of the things that are happening in my life which do not pertain to my relationship with my boyfriend. As a result, I asked my boyfriend if he will be there for me when nobody is and he replied, "I will try".

Pastor, when I saw that response on WhatsApp I started to pray, asking God that I would stop thinking about him as often as I do. Additionally, he will be going away soon for four years to get his stay and he always tells me that he is doing it for our future. I agree, but at the same time I don't. However, I write to ask you your opinion on this matter. I look forward for response soon.


Dear Depressed,

Why would it take four years for this man to get permanent status abroad? I am sorry that you did not state where he is going. I don't think that you should put your confidence in this guy. Time will tell if I am wrong. I suggest that you put your future in God's hands and that you work hard and get an education. God bless you.


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