My child's father is not helping me out


June 13, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am 25 years old and I am living with my child's father. I don't know if I am expecting too much from him, but I am not working at present because I have a one-month-old child and it is also hard to get a job. My boyfriend is always working and whenever he is at home he is always sleeping. On Sundays, he says he is on a farm. I found out that he was cheating when I was pregnant.

Unhappy Girlfriend

Dear Unhappy Girlfriend,

Try your best to not allow this man to get you pregnant again. You are 25 years old and this man is not treating you with respect. He needs to spend time with you at home and assist you with the baby. That is what a good man would do. You say that during your pregnancy he was cheating. How do you know that he was cheating? Both of you need to go and see a family counsellor. If you suspect that this man is cheating, you should not have unprotected sex with him. Don't take anything for granted.


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