Is he hiding his child from me, pastor?


July 11, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am 29 years old and I am dating a man who is 37. He told me that he does not have any children, but I do not know how to believe him.

One day, I read a text message in his phone from a girl who asked him when he was coming to see his child.

I asked him about it and he got vexed and said that I should not read his text messages.

I asked him what he has to hide and he said nothing. From that day, I started to doubt him.

I am a poor girl. I just got a job. I don't have any money. I live with my parents. My parents would love to see me get married, especially my father.

I am having sex with this man. He never has condoms, so I buy the condom and walk with it.

One night after we had sex and we fell asleep. I woke up when I felt him trying to have sex with me again. I pushed him away and asked him to get another condom.

I asked him if he is trying to get me pregnant and he said no.

Pastor, I love him. He said he did not want to buy 'puss in bag'. That is why I am allowing him to have sex with me, but I do not want to have a baby now.

He told me that he believes that I am special. I don't ask him for anything because I am working.

Do you think I should tell my father what I saw or should I forget it? I will still marry him even if he has a child, but I want to know the truth. If he has more than one, I don't want him.


Dear V.H.,

You should talk to your father about it and ask him to question your boyfriend. Tell him that you would still marry him, you just want to know the truth.


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