I now want my lover after chasing him away


July 27, 2016

Dear Pastor

I seem to be unlucky with love. I'm a broken woman because of my ex, who was a liar and deceived me. I was good to him, but in the end I was unhappy being with him. He drained me.

I visited Jamaica not looking for anyone, but I met someone. Long story short; he helped me get over my ex, which no other guy was able to do. He was in his early 20s.

It bothered me at first, but I fell in love with him and the sex was good.

I'm a pretty independent woman, so I have no problem meeting men. I was hot and cold, always pushing him away.

But my ex, who hurt me, has caused me to be cold. Now that I've pushed away the young man, I realise I love him. Pastor, how do I get him back? I'm stubborn. Should I leave him alone or contact him when I go back to Jamaica?

Pastor, I would like to call you. If you have a number, may I have it? God bless. I'm trying to be a better person and be slow to anger.

Initials withheld

Dear ...

You did not give your age, but you have given the age of the young man. I am assuming that you are much older than this man in his 20s. Perhaps that is why your conscience bothers you.

You are in love with the young man and he is pushing himself on you because he likes the idea of going to bed with a big woman (as young men would say).

May I say that you need to pray about this matter and ask yourself what really is the reason why you have the desire to be with him? If both of you feel like you are in love and can't live without each other, that is between the both of you and no one else.


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