My man is abusive and accuses me of cheating


July 05, 2017

Dear Pastor,

I am a 23-year-old woman and I am living with my fiancE, who is 24. We have a child together, but we also have children separately.

At first, I loved this man so much, until he puts his hands on me.

He accuses me of having a relationship with his sister's father, because of his childhood. He abuses me in every way, and then tells me that he loves me.

I am afraid to go because I don't want to start over. He has good in-laws; they are the best in the world.

Please advise me, pastor.


Dear T.C.,

This man does not trust you and he is abusive. You should not put up with any man who abuses you physically or verbally. Both of you should go to see a family counsellor.

He has accused you of having an intimate relationship with his sister's father. It is likely that he would always raise this matter. This is not a solid relationship. I can't encourage you to continue in it.


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