Living with a 'wutliss' man
I have a man who has no use. He does not work to provide for his family. He does not help around the house. You can't count on him at all. And, worst of all, he cannot do anything in the bedroom.
I will give up this man any day if I can find somebody better. The problem is, I am in the church and I want to serve my God.
Any suggestions, pastor?
Stay with him, work with him. Try to find the best herbs that are available. That means you might have to talk to a herbalist; I hear many of them on the radio these days.
Ask a medical doctor which one of these herbalists he/she would recommend. I believe that if you try, things would change.