I have never had an orgasm


August 24, 2017

Dear Pastor,

I am 24 and I am having a little problem. They say that women can experience orgasms, but I don't know what's wrong with me. I have not been able to reach an orgasm.

I am wondering if something is wrong with my body. I have done good, nice romantic sex, but I still can't reach out to it and I always want to.

I want to feel the niceness. Whenever I have sex, it's like nothing to me.


Dear J.B

Very few women in the world are non-orgasmic. Therefore, I wish to recommend a book to you and to your husband. It is an outstanding book.

The title is 'Intended for Pleasure', and it is written by Doctor Ed Wheat and his wife Gayle Wheat. In this book, the authors say that this difficulty that women experience is due to lack of proper romance, foreplay and sexual knowledge.

They insist that even past experiences may cause women to fail to experience orgasm.

Sometimes if a woman has had problems as a child and these problems persist, it might become necessary for her to get help from a sex therapist.

Not experiencing orgasm is nothing to be ashamed of. Lots of women, especially those who in their teenage years saw sex as something dirty, might find it difficult to experience orgasm.

They may also carry in their minds certain inhibitions that might be difficult for them to overcome.

There are many types of exercises that a woman can do with the help of her husband that will eventually bring her to orgasm.

Then she will give her husband lots of trouble, because she would want to repeat this experience every time she has sex with her husband. And as she gets to learn how to enjoy sex, she may experience multiple orgasms.


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