Online boyfriend pressuring me for sex


September 20, 2017

Dear Pastor,

I am in my late teens. I met this guy online and we spoke from time to time. Eventually, we met in person and decided to start a relationship.

He is a cool person. However, the problem I am having is that he is pressuring me for sex and that doesn't work well with me.

We've known each other for about a month now. I really like this guy but I don't know if I should continue with this relationship.

Please give me your fatherly advice


Dear J.E.,

If this man continues to pressure you for sex, end the relationship with him. It is evident that sex is what he really wants from you. He is not prepared to build a good relationship.

He only wants to get under your skirt, and if he succeeds, he is going to use you and go his way.

You are old enough to understand that when you are in a relationship, the man who does not take no for an answer and is very eager to have sex is not a man you should trust.

And you should know that a couple cannot know each other well if they have known each other for only one month.

Generally speaking, couples who meet each other online lie a lot about themselves, so you should be very careful how you embrace everything this man says to you.

This man seems to just want your flesh. Don't trust him.


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