All he wants is sex


November 08, 2017

Dear Pastor,

I have been living with a man since I was 31 years old. I am now 54 years old. I have two children, a girl and a boy. One is 26, and the other is 24. This man does not want me to do anything. He does not want to leave me alone. I left his house many times, but he still comes back to me and begs me to take him back.

In 2014, he bought a ring in my name and said he wanted to marry me. I told him that if he didn't change his ways, I wouldn't get married to him. I left his house in March, and to this very day, he is still fooling around. He came back for the ring that he bought for me. I gave it back to him because he feels that I cannot get a next man to marry me. All he wants is sex.

I am fed up with this man's love. Please, pastor, tell me what to do.


Dear J.T.,

You have left him a few times, so if you know that he is a time waster, leave him permanently; don't go back to him. You are quite correct in returning his ring to him. You have wasted many precious years with this man.


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