I don't need to be a bedroom bully

Dear Pastor,

I think that men have the desire to have sex throughout the night because they are driven by ego and lack of proper lovemaking techniques.

Several men and women often engage in sex rather than love making. Foreplay is essential in lovemaking while sex does not necessarily involve foreplay.

There are also some women who put pressure on men for sex, hence the men, for the fear of their women going with other men, take all sorts of substances to prove a point and secure their position.

R.

Dear R.,

You are quiet correct. I agree with everything that you have said. Some women like to make love for a very long period of time and a few minutes of the sexual act cause them to curse their men and then the men feel inadequate.

Pastor.