My friend might be a sexaholic


February 10, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I have a friend who has had sex with 13 males. She is just 17 years old. She is feeling very self-conscious now. What do you think I should tell her to ease her mind?


Dear V.B.,

Are you sure you are talking about your friend and not yourself? If you are talking about yourself, you need to examine yourself and realise that having sexual intercourse with 13 different men will naturally affect you psychologically.

The very thought of being involved with so many men will give you the feeling that these men will never respect you.

Not only will they not respect you, but they will tell others that you are 'easy to get'. So if you are talking about your friend, you can share my comments with her.

Sex is a beautiful thing (as you know), but it can be abused. Therefore, tell your 'friend' that although the age of consent is 16, she must endeavour to live an upright life. If she believes that she should be involved, it should only be with one partner.

Please do not condemn your friend for what has happened. Just make sure that she does not continue that type of lifestyle. Both of you should try to get a good education and not allow men to use you. I will be praying for you.


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