Still in love with my ex-boyfriend


February 22, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I've been having a problem on my hands for quite some time now, and it's bothering me a lot. It's my ex-boyfriend.

I am still deeply in love with him even though I have not seen him for over two years. I can't get him out of my head.

I have a new boyfriend, but my former boyfriend is always on my mind. It is affecting my present relationship. I can't think straight. I would like you to tell me what I should do to get him out of my mind.

He is now in Jamaica, and I am trying my best not to go see him. His uncle called me and told me that he is here. Please help me.


Dear A.W.,

The relationship with this man has ended, but you are still in love with him. Perhaps he treated you very well. You may comfort yourself by saying 'true love never dies', but the love is only on your side, because this young man has moved on.

You have a boyfriend, and I am sure you have told this boyfriend how much you love him. Try to build that relationship, and forget this guy who has not shown interest in you.

The man has come to Jamaica, and he has not even tried to contact you. The reason he has not done so is because he considers the relationship with you as dead.

When a thing is dead, you can only bury it. So, bury this relationship and move on.


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