My man used to sleep with prostitutes


June 29, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am 31 years old and in love with a guy who is 35. I gave him a son. He did not have any children. He is a hard-working farmer. He used to do everything for himself: wash, cook, clean and go to his farm. He is not a very smooth guy, he is rough. When looks were being given away, he did not get any. When I told him I loved him, he did not believe.

The first night I went to visit him and told him that I would spend the night with him, he could not believe. After he told me about what he knew about girls, I told him I couldn't have sex with him. I found out that the girls he used to have sex with were prostitutes. Two of them were his regular prostitutes.

When he said that, I became afraid and both of us agreed that he would go to the doctor and be tested for STDs. I also took time to clean his house and threw out some of the rags in his place.

I went back to see him after he got his results and we spent the night together and that very night he got me pregnant.

When I told him that the doctor confirmed that I was pregnant, he asked me over and over if I was sure he got me pregnant. I told him yes, it is his, because I did not go with any other man.

He told his relatives that I was pregnant and they laughed and said that I was trying to get his money. This man could hardly read and write and his money was in his sister's account. Luckily, she did not give me any trouble at all.

He and I have a lovely son together and we are planning to get married. We would like for you to officiate. So please let us know if you can do it and what is the cost.


Dear V.T.,

I am happy that you and this man and are planning to get married. I congratulate the both of you. I am also happy to know that his sister, who controls his money, has accepted you and is cooperating with you. She is a wise sister. I hope that you will take the time to help this man to learn to read and write. He's not handsome, according to what you have said, but I believe that he will treat you like a queen. And people are going to wonder how is it that some so-called ugly men get pretty girls, but let them talk.

I would be happy to officiate at your wedding as soon as both of you are ready. And by the way, don't plan a big wedding. You need the money to do other things.


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