Oral sex is not a sin


July 09, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am a Catholic. I am not married, but I am the mother of an 11-year-old boy.

I have sex with my son's father and his best friend, too, because my son's father paid his best friend to have sex with me.

I love to have oral sex. Oral sex is not a sin.

Sex Lover

Dear Sex lover,

I wonder why you mentioned that you are a Catholic. Are you trying to say that although you are supposed to be a Christian, you are engaged in sexual practices that may be contrary to the norm?

You claim to have an 11-year-old son and that you are having sex with his father, but at the same time, he has paid his best friend to have sex with you. Why would he do that? Is it because you love oral sex and he refuses to engage in that type of sex with you? Or were you all engaged in a threesome?

You seem to be proud to be having sex with two men.

Oral sex is the most intimate form of sex. How could your child's father allow another man to do that with you?

I cannot encourage you to continue to be engaged in such loose behaviour.


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