Will being pregnant affect my filing to the US?


August 29, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am a young lady and I have two sons. I am living with their father. The problem I am facing now is that I am pregnant again and I am being filed for.

I did not want to get pregnant again. My children's father wants us to get married, but my parents told me if I get married, it will complicate the filing. My children's father is upset with me.

I had stopped using the Pill. The doctor I went to told me to ease up on the Pill and to use the condom when having sex. I want to do an abortion, but my children's father told me no, so I don't know what to do. Sometimes he is so rough with me, I can't believe that I am the woman he pledged his love to. Since we became friends, I have never cheated on him. Up until now, I have not told my parents who are filing for me that I am pregnant again. My pregnancy is three months old. Please give me your advice.

Y. V.

Dear Y. V.,

I suggest that you speak to an immigration lawyer. Don't listen to what people in general say. Talk to the professional and he/she will give you guidance.


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