Afraid I'm getting a 'jacket'


November 22, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am a man, and I am having some problems. I am seeking some advice. I am 48 years old. I am with a woman who is 29 years old. She is pregnant. I believe that I am the father of the child.

However, she put some doubts in my head because I searched her phone and saw a text from a man saying that he enjoyed having sex with her and he would like to do it again. I also saw some pictures in her phone. I don't want her to know that I saw these things.

I used to like looking at her in her pregnant state, but now that I am not sure if the child is mine, I am resenting her. I am unlucky with women. I have lived with two other women and I thought that this woman would settle down with me.

I do not know what to do, Pastor. Please help.


Dear T.E.,

You searched your woman's phone and as a result of what you saw, you believe that she has cheated on you. If you have solid proof that she has, I suggest that you confront her and discuss the matter.

I would also suggest that you insist that a DNA test be done before the child is registered so as to determine whether you are the biological father. Whether or not you are the biological father, this woman is extremely careless and she should not be having an affaire. If you know for sure that she was having an affaire, I suggest that you end the relationship with her.


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