I didn't know he was married


December 08, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I have a boyfriend. This man and I have been friends for three years. He came to my house and everybody got to know him and they liked him.

He never took me to his home because his mother is a Christian; that is what he told me.

He used to sleep with me at least once per week. I did not know that he was married and living with his wife, and that was the reason why he could not take me home.

I could not talk to any other man and let him know. Once I went out and did not tell him. He beat me up and I could not go to work.

His wife found out about me and called me. When I told her that I did not know that he was married, she said OK, and I should keep away from her husband.

I told him not to come back to see me, but I miss him.

It is so hard to trust men. I know a guy who lives in New York and I called him and told him what had happened. He told me that he was prepared to receive me.


Dear Y.R.,

This man fooled you. He didn't have to lie to you at all.

He is a wicked man because he even physically abused you when you dated another man, and he knew that he had his wife at home.

I am glad that you are out of this situation. And I wish you the very best for the future.

Whichever man comes your way, make sure you do some background checks on him before you agree to allow him into your life.


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