Confused by her threesome request

Dear Pastor,

I am 23 years old, and I have a girlfriend. She is 24 years old. She has one child. She is my second serious girlfriend. She is a devil, but I love her. She was living with her boyfriend, but he is out of the country. He works on a ship. I have been taking care of things while he is away, but she is never satisfied. She told me I am the slowest man she has ever had, and she confided in me that before we got together, she had a threesome, but her boyfriend doesn't know that she is into that sort of thing. And the man she had the threesome with is asking her to do it with him again.

The girl who joined her in the threesome is one of her friends who does her hair, and she told my girlfriend that things were slow in the hair business, so she agreed to engage in the threesome, and the guy gave her $4,000. My girlfriend didn't take anything for herself from him because she could always get money from him. One night we were in bed, and the guy called. She told him that I was with her. He wanted to know when he could have another threesome with her and if the girl would be available. She said her boyfriend stays away too long from her, so that is why she has to cheat on him.

She asked me if I would engage in a threesome, and I told her no. She said she has never done it with her babyfather, only with her hairdresser and this guy. She told me that I am the only man who doesn't want to do a threesome, but she says it is because I am young and inexperienced.

I want to leave this girl and go back to my first girlfriend, but she is not interested in me anymore because she got pregnant for me and aborted the baby, and I cursed her and called her graveyard. Then, she told me that the child was not mine, but I know that it was my child.

This girl who wants us to engage in a threesome says it would spice up our relationship. Pastor, what do you think about that?

T.S.

Dear T.S.,

I suggest that you end the relationship with young woman. She is not a good woman. She has a man who is working abroad, and she is cheating on him right now with you. She has admitted to you that she has had a threesome with her hairdresser and a man. And the man paid the girl $4,000. She is a loose woman. She is not a woman with good morals. She cannot be satisfied with having one man. Can you imagine how many times she might have told her child's father how much she loves him but was lying?

Young man, I repeat, end the relationship with this woman. She is likely to get you into trouble. She might even cause you to get sexually transmitted infections. You may think that you are safe, but it is likely that this man who is abroad is paying the rent and can come any time. And then, what reason would you give him for sleeping in his house?

This girl just needs money, and that is all. It is not the sex so much that she wants from you, it is your money. She has already told you that you are too slow. I repeat, leave her. Run from her. You are a young man.

Pastor