My boyfriend can't forgive me for cheating


August 15, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I have been dating a guy for seven years and I cheated on him with his enemy and he found out. He cannot seem to forgive me for what I did.

Pastor, I love this guy way beyond measure. What should I do or what can I do for him to forgive me?


Dear A. W.,

It may take this man a very long time to overcome what you have done to him. And even when you have assured him that you would not repeat the mistake you have made, he might not trust you.

You see, it takes a long time to rebuild trust. So please do not believe that because you told your boyfriend that you are sorry for cheating, that he would simply accept what you said and take you back into his arms. Please give this man time. Don't rush him. In the meantime, make sure that you have ended the relationship with the man with whom you had the affair.


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