Girlfriend is behaving like a prostitute


September 14, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I am 20 years old and I have a girlfriend who is 18 years old. I am having a problem with her because I am not the only person she is having a relationship with. She has had sex with two of my friends, and she has admitted to doing so. She is still in high school. When I told her that I don't like what she is doing, she lifted up her skirt and showed me her 'front' and said: "This is my asset. It is the only way I can make money. I know you don't like it. I don't like cheating on you, but when I don't have what I need, I have to use my asset."

The thing that hurts me most, pastor, is that I make sacrifices to give this girl her bus fare and lunch money, but she is never thankful. One Saturday night she went out, and I thought that she was with her school friends, only to find out that she was with one of the men who takes her to school. He is a taxi driver. She said they didn't do anything, but I am not sure. I don't think I can live without her. People say that when a man has a pretty woman, he should be prepared to get 'bun'. Pastor, is that true?

Her parents think highly of her, but I know that she is not behaving. I used to respect her more, but since she raised her clothes and showed me her 'front', I don't respect her anymore. But I can't leave her. I love her too much.


Dear R.S.,

You say this is your girlfriend. Well, I will tell you what you ought to do. You should prepare yourself to receive more 'bun'. If this young girl would be so disrespectful and lift up her skirt and tell you that her private part is her asset, and you are still saying that you love her and cannot leave her, then prepare yourself to receive more 'bun'. You are behaving like an 'idiot', and your friends will see you as that. They will laugh at you and work on her 'asset'.

Some women commonly call their private parts their 'asset', but you did not expect her to be so common and to be so brave to tell you that she uses it to earn money.

She is a bad girl. She is not satisfied with what she gets. I am sure that her parents give her money and then you give money, too. But she cannot be satisfied. She is behaving like a prostitute. Prostitutes use their 'assets' to make money.

Please warn this girl not to have unprotected sex, and you should drop her because if you continue with her, she may pass on some sexually transmitted infection to you.


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