Babyfather doesn't support his child


September 19, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I am 29 years old and I have two children. My second babyfather is working but he doesn't want to give me any money.

Sometimes I have to literally beg him for money to buy pampers. When I ask him for money, he always tells me where to meet him for us to have sex.

I don't want to have sex with him because it was because of him why my first babyfather left me.

My first babyfather and I were going on well. One day when I was coming from the clinic, this present one offered me a ride.

I accepted the ride, and this one ride caused my first child's father to find out that I was seeing another man and he left me.

He said he was not sharing his woman with anybody. My mother talked to him, everybody talked to him but he said he didn't want me again. But he still supports his child.

My present babyfather is always begging me for sex. That's all he wants from me and his son

resembles him a lot.


Dear T.R.,

I am glad that your first babyfather supports his child. The second child's father should be put before the court.

You should take him there for child support. He is no good. Evidently, you don't really love him.

What you need is money for your child so take him to court and ask the magistrate to order that the support for the child should be paid through the court. Try your best and get a job.


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