Why is she not into me?


November 19, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I am 50 years old and I have a lady friend. Whenever I go to see her, she is always playing Christian music. I asked her why is it that she can't play other music and she said she enjoys Christian music more than any other because she feels relaxed. If I try to sit next to her, she pulls away. I asked her if she is scorning me and she says no, but I am not a believer, and she could only get involved with a believer.

I love this woman, but why does she calls me an unbeliever?


Dear W.D.,

You should try and use wisdom. This woman is a Christian and she loves her gospel songs. Therefore, when you go to visit her, enjoy the songs. Don't criticise her for listening to these songs. If you don't want to hear the songs, then don't visit her. She calls you an unbeliever because she knows that you have not embraced Christ as your Saviour and Lord. After you have done so, the relationship between the both of you should improve.

Don't try to force her into any intimate relationship, because she would reject you. I wish you well.


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