My man is a ‘stamina daddy’

Dear Pastor,

I read your articles frequently and I wish to share my current situation.

I am a woman in my 20s and I have a very good job. I am currently in a relationship with my partner for two years. The first time we had sex, it lasted for over four hours non-stop (from 10 p.m. to 2:40 a.m.). I was convinced that he was on some form of drugs. He said he liked my ‘grip’ and had to take enough in case it did not happen again. Thereafter, it went on for a minimum of two hours. I can count the few times it lasted for one hour.

I remember an instance where I got ready for work in an elegant dress and he insisted on us doing a quickie before I left. That quickie lasted for 45 minutes. There are instances where he does ‘marathons’ with me. During my birthday week last year, we did many rounds! On several occasions, I literally had to tap out and throw in the towel because I couldn’t keep up. He caused me to have multiple orgasms and had me weak, unable to walk, eyes rolling and toes curling. Many times he is ready again soon after climax. He definitely knows how to use his tool.

I am not complaining, but rather grateful for having such a person in my life. He does not take supplements to boost his performance but rather goes for fruits and vegetables always. He is the apple of my eyes. At one point, he was working in Hanover for a month. I travelled from Kingston to visit him on weekends. It was definitely worth it. I am looking to build a future with him as we have a strong bond.

I would advise all females with a good man to take great care of him and treat him right. Keep up the great work, Pastor, and stay blessed.

K.

Dear K.,

You did not give the age of this man, but evidently he is a young man and you love him deeply.

When it comes to the matter of sex, nobody is in his class or yours. You say this man does not do anything to enhance his performance in bed and he can make love to you for hours. I know that it is not impossible for a man and a woman to make love for many hours. Making love does not mean that the man has to penetrate the woman. I think what you might be trying to say is that you do not have a problem with this man making love to you for hours. But I would want to question, how could a normal man have sexual intercourse with you for four hours and experience multiple ejaculation?

You use the word rounds. In Jamaica, rounds imply the number of times the man ejaculates. If a man can comfortably ejaculate more than five times, I would want to think that he is not only using fruits and vegetables, but he is drinking something more than that. Don’t get mad with me, I just find your letter to be highly unusual. Perhaps many of my female readers might be saying that they want to find a man like yours. I would like to read what other women have to say on this matter.

I wish this man and you the very best in life and I would caution you not to overdo a good thing.

Pastor